How to Rehome Your Cat A Guide for Cat Parents

 

Discover the safest, most responsible way to rehome your cat. Includes tips on screening adopters, preparing your cat, and avoiding shelters. A compassionate guide for cat parents.

I’m not someone who takes rehoming a cat lightly, because cats never forget their people. They don’t understand why they’re suddenly separated from the person they trusted. When you surrender a cat to a shelter or hand them off casually under the label of “rehoming your cat” your cat doesn’t see it as a new beginning. They wait for you. They look for you. They hold on to the bond you built.

I know this firsthand.
I was separated from my cat for years. She had been taken from me, and I had no idea where she ended up. It wasn’t until she landed in an animal shelter scared, confused, and alone that her microchip was scanned and I finally got the call. When I arrived, Nikki hesitated for a moment, unsure after everything she’d been through. But the second she realized it was me, she wrapped her paws around me and held on. She remembered.

That moment is why I believe so strongly that cat parents must take every possible step to find the right home a real home rather than surrendering their cat to a shelter. Rehoming should be thoughtful, intentional, and rooted in love.

If you’re facing the difficult decision to rehome your cat, this guide will help you do it safely, ethically, and with your cat’s emotional wellbeing at the center.

 

The Best Way to Rehome a Cat (Without a Shelter)

The best way to rehome a cat is through direct placement finding a loving, well‑matched home yourself using trusted platforms and careful screening. Prioritize your cat’s emotional and medical needs, and never rush the process.

Below is a step‑by‑step guide to rehoming responsibly.

 

 1. Evaluate the Need

Before making a final decision, pause and ask whether rehoming is truly necessary.

• Explore alternatives like behavior support, financial assistance, or temporary fostering.
• Ask yourself:
  • Can I meet my cat’s needs with help or adjustments?
  • Is this situation temporary or permanent?

Sometimes the right support can keep a family together.

 

 2. Define the Ideal Home

A successful rehome starts with understanding who your cat is.

Consider your cat’s:

• Temperament
• Health needs
• Preferences and routines
• Comfort level with kids, dogs, or other cats

Write a clear profile describing their personality, habits, and the type of environment where they will thrive.

 

 3. Prepare Your Cat for Adoption

A well-prepared cat has a smoother transition.

• Schedule a vet checkup to ensure they’re healthy and current on vaccines.
• Spay/neuter if not already done—it improves adoptability and long‑term wellbeing.
• Gather vet records, favorite toys, blankets, and comfort items to send with them.

These familiar items help reduce stress during the move.

 

 4. Create a Thoughtful Adoption Profile

Use reputable platforms such as Adopt‑a‑Pet’s Rehome program or Petfinder.

Include:

• Clear, flattering photos and short videos
• Honest descriptions of behavior, quirks, and needs
• Your expectations for the new home (indoor-only, no declawing, etc.)

Transparency protects your cat and helps attract the right adopters.

 

 5. Screen Potential Adopters Carefully

This is where you protect your cat’s future.

• Ask about their experience with cats, lifestyle, and readiness for long‑term care.
• Consider home visits or video calls to ensure the environment is safe.
• Use a written adoption agreement when possible.

A good adopter will appreciate your diligence.

 

 6. Support the Transition

Even after placement, your guidance matters.

• Offer a trial period if appropriate.
• Provide tips, routines, and reassurance to the new family.
• Stay available for questions during the adjustment phase.

Your involvement helps your cat feel secure as they settle into their new life.

 

 Avoid These Rehoming Mistakes

• Never abandon or surrender your cat to a shelter without exploring all other options.
• Don’t use anonymous online listings without proper vetting.
• Avoid emotional detachment your cat’s wellbeing still depends on your care, even during rehoming.