Discover the safest, most responsible way to rehome your cat. Includes tips on screening adopters, preparing your cat, and avoiding shelters. A compassionate guide for cat parents.
I’m not someone who takes rehoming a cat lightly, because cats never forget their people. They don’t understand why they’re suddenly separated from the person they trusted. When you surrender a cat to a shelter or hand them off casually under the label of “rehoming your cat” your cat doesn’t see it as a new beginning. They wait for you. They look for you. They hold on to the bond you built.
I know this firsthand.
I was separated from my cat for years. She had been taken from me, and I had no
idea where she ended up. It wasn’t until she landed in an animal shelter scared,
confused, and alone that her microchip was scanned and I finally got the call.
When I arrived, Nikki hesitated for a moment, unsure after everything she’d
been through. But the second she realized it was me, she wrapped her paws
around me and held on. She remembered.
That moment is why I believe so strongly that cat parents must take
every possible step to find the right home a real home rather than
surrendering their cat to a shelter. Rehoming should be thoughtful,
intentional, and rooted in love.
If you’re facing the difficult decision to rehome your cat, this guide
will help you do it safely, ethically, and with your cat’s emotional wellbeing
at the center.
The Best Way to Rehome a Cat
(Without a Shelter)
The best way to rehome a cat is through direct placement finding a
loving, well‑matched home yourself using trusted platforms and careful
screening. Prioritize your cat’s emotional and medical needs, and never rush
the process.
Below is a step‑by‑step guide to rehoming responsibly.
1. Evaluate the Need
Before making a final decision, pause and ask whether rehoming is truly
necessary.
- Explore alternatives like
behavior support, financial assistance, or temporary fostering.
- Ask yourself:
• Can I meet my cat’s needs with help or adjustments?
• Is this situation temporary or permanent?
Sometimes the right support can keep a family together.
2. Define the Ideal Home
A successful rehome starts with understanding who your cat is.
Consider your cat’s:
- Temperament
- Health needs
- Preferences and routines
- Comfort level with kids, dogs, or
other cats
Write a clear profile describing their personality, habits, and the type
of environment where they will thrive.
3. Prepare Your Cat for Adoption
A well-prepared cat has a smoother transition.
- Schedule a vet checkup to ensure
they’re healthy and current on vaccines.
- Spay/neuter if not already
done—it improves adoptability and long‑term wellbeing.
- Gather vet records, favorite
toys, blankets, and comfort items to send with them.
These familiar items help reduce stress during the move.
4. Create a Thoughtful Adoption Profile
Use reputable platforms such as Adopt‑a‑Pet’s Rehome program or Petfinder.
Include:
- Clear, flattering photos and
short videos
- Honest descriptions of behavior,
quirks, and needs
- Your expectations for the new
home (indoor-only, no declawing, etc.)
Transparency protects your cat and helps attract the right adopters.
5. Screen Potential Adopters Carefully
This is where you protect your cat’s future.
- Ask about their experience with
cats, lifestyle, and readiness for long‑term care.
- Consider home visits or video
calls to ensure the environment is safe.
- Use a written adoption agreement
when possible.
A good adopter will appreciate your diligence.
6. Support the Transition
Even after placement, your guidance matters.
- Offer a trial period if
appropriate.
- Provide tips, routines, and
reassurance to the new family.
- Stay available for questions
during the adjustment phase.
Your involvement helps your cat feel secure as they settle into their new
life.
Avoid These Rehoming Mistakes
- Never abandon or surrender your
cat to a shelter without exploring all other options.
- Don’t use anonymous online
listings without proper vetting.
- Avoid emotional detachment your
cat’s wellbeing still depends on your care, even during rehoming.
